All children develop at different rates and in different ways. Some children are born with special needs that can affect their growth and development. Other children may not show developmental problems, delays, or differences until later in childhood. Fortunately, many of these children can get the support they need to reach their potential if parents and child care providers recognize the signs of need early and get help.

The Early Warning Signs described below are only a few of the indicators that a child may need further observation and assessment. If, for any reason, you suspect that your child or a child in your care may have special needs, we urge you to seek Help immediately. The period from birth to age three is the best time to help the child, and you may prevent more serious problems from occurring later. DON'T WAIT until the child enters kindergarten before you ask for assistance!



The following situations place children at greater risk for health and developmental difficulties:
  • Prematurity and/or low birth weight
  • Parental or other exposure to drugs, alcohol, or tobacco
  • Violence in the community or home
  • Poor nutrition
  • Family stress (for example, poverty, poor housing, homelessness, death in the family)


Some of the following behaviors are causes for concern in any child. Others may just be part of a particular temperament or personality and should be appraised in light of the child's total demeanor.
  • By six months of age, avoids being help or talked to or resists being soothed and comforted.
  • Does not pay attention or stay focused on an activity for as long a time as other children of the same age do.
  • Avoids or rarely makes eye contact with others.
  • Gets unusually frustrated when trying to do simple tasks that most children of the same age can do.
  • Often acts out; appears to be very stubborn or aggressive.
  • Acts extremely shy or withdrawn.
  • Does not like being touched.
  • Does not like having certain types of materials or clothing next to body.
  • Treats other children, animals, or objects cruelly or destructively.
  • Tends to break things a lot.
  • Displays violent behavior (tantrums, fighting, screaming, or hitting other children) on a daily basis.
  • Stares into space, rocks body, or talks to self more often than other children of the same age do.
  • Often bangs head against an object, floor, or wall.
  • Does not recognize dangerous situations, such as walking in traffic or jumping from high places.
  • Tends to be sick often; complains of headaches or stomachaches.
  • Has sleeping, feeding, eating, or toileting problems.
  • Is overly impulsive, active, or distractible.
  • Does not respond to discipline as well as children the same age.
  • Has difficulty putting thoughts, actions, and movements together.
  • Does not seek approval from parent or caregiver.


  • Has frequent earaches.
  • Has had many ear, nose, or throat infections or allergies.
  • By four months, does not look at the source of sounds or voices or reat to loud noises.
  • Talks in a very loud or soft voice.
  • Seems to have difficulty responding when called from across the room, even when it is for something interesting.
  • Turns body so that the same ear is always turned toward a sound.
  • Breathes through mouth.
  • Has difficulty understanding what is said.


  • Has stiff arms or legs.
  • Has floppy or limp body posture.
  • Uses one side of the body more than the other.
  • Has poor coordination or moves in a disorganized, clumsy manner as compared with other children of the same age.
  • At three months, still has difficulty holding head up.
  • At nine months, has difficulty sitting without help, standing up with support, reaching for objects, or picking objects up with thumb and index finger.
  • At eighteen months, has difficulty walking without help, kicking a large ball, scribbling, or building a tower with two or three blocks.
  • At age two, does not walk up or down stairs, squat or stoop and play without falling over.
  • By age three, cannot run without falling frequently, or jump with both feet.
  • By age four, has difficulty with such activities as hopping on one foot, pedaling a tricycle, catching a large bounced ball, closing a fist, or wiggling a thumb.
  • By age five, has difficulty skipping using alternate feet, pumping self on a swing, or cutting with scissors.


  • Seems to have difficulty following objects or people with eyes.
  • Rubs eyes frequently.
  • Has reddened, watering, or crusty eyelids.
  • Holds head in a strained or unusual position when trying to look at an object.
  • Seems to have difficulty finding or picking up small objects dropped on the floor.
  • Has difficulty focusing or making eye contact.
  • Closes one eye when trying to look at distant objects.


  • At any age, is unusually quiet.
  • By four months, rarely makes sounds like cooing or gurgling.
  • By nine months, vocalizations are still vowel sounds, without repeated consonant sounds, such as ba-ba.
  • By age one, does not shake head no.
  • By age one, does not understand first words, such as milk, bottle, or bye-bye.
  • By age one, does not say mama or dada.
  • By age two, rarely names family members and/or common objects.
  • By age two, does not speak in two-word phrases.
  • By age two, does not point to objects or people to express want or need.
  • By age three, does not know last name, gender, or common rhymes.
  • By age three, does not follow simple directions or speak in three- or four-word phrases.
  • By age four, does not tell stories, either real or make-believe, or ask frequent questions.
  • By age four, does not speak in four- or five-word sentences and has speech that is not understandable by adults.
  • By age five, does not know age, and cannot answer who, what, where, when, or why questions or use various types of sentences.


  • By age one, has a hard time figuring out simple problems, such as finding an object after it is hidden, or repeating an action to make something happen.
  • By age two, does not identify simple body parts by pointing, match similar objects, or recognize self in a mirror.
  • By age three, does not understand simple stories and ideas.
  • By age three, does not understand simple mathematical concepts such as one, more, or less, or count 1-2-3.
  • By age four, does not give correct answers to questions, such as What do you do when you are sleepy or hungry?
  • By age four, cannot tell the difference between different shapes or colors.
  • By age fice, does not understand the concepts of today, tomorrow, or yesterday.


  • By three months, does not coo or smile.
  • By age one, does not play games like peek-a-boo or pat-a-cake or wave bye-bye.
  • By eighteen months, does not try to get involved with another person's play, or look at a book, or an object, with another person.
  • By age two, does not imitate or try to help with routine tasks, like sweeping, washing dishes, dusting, or driving a car.
  • By age two, does not play purposefully.
  • By age three, tends to play alone more than with other children.
  • By age three, initiates play through pushing and hitting.
  • By age three, does not interact with adults and children outside the family.
  • By age four, does not play make-believe games and group games such as hide-and-seek with other children.
  • By age four, does not share or take turns.
  • By age five, does not express concern or compassion, when appropriate.
  • By age five, does not show off occasionally.

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